Mar 26, 2021 · Loser’s mindset and all of that. I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul. Feeling like your father …

Jan 18, 2026 · Andy’s Note: Hey guys, this is a guest post from my friend Alex, from Playing with Fire – he wrote a guest post for me, and I wrote one for his site.

Bending the rules of a late night card game Where the loser removes an item of clothing You're dreading each deal, so urgent and grave Have a shufty over your shoulder Well, it's a shady game And I want …

Oct 14, 2025 · Winner or loser. The guy who gets laid or the guy who never will. It’s incredibly binary. That binary thinking traps you. It tells you, “If I’m not already winning, I must be a loser.” And if you …

May 22, 2025 · Yep, I’ve gotten back into approaching after taking a long break during my relationship. It’s good to be back! Here’s the vid:

Oct 6, 2024 · A lot of content on the net appeals to the lowest base instincts in us; anger, hate, pride & ego, victimhood, fear, sadness, grief, pain, suffering. A lot of the mainstream media and the news …

Apr 5, 2020 · Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I? Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones? Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not …

I really recommend you listen to the audio above first, before you continue reading. To sum up the audio, here’s my “approach anxiety program”:

Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do. I’d stare at my phone for twenty minutes debating whether “hey :)” was too eager or whether “hey.” was too cold. I’d re-read conversations ten times …

Nov 13, 2023 · I have massive plans for the Kill Your Inner Loser project, and I’m super excited for this next chapter. If you’d like to support me and help this community grow into something magical I want …